Monday, February 06, 2006
11:32 PM
Had a talk with my bestie just now... Just me and her... Heart-to-heart.. Woman-to-woman.. And i feel better already..
So anyway, i realize that some things are just better left as it is. All things happen for a reason and it is entirely up to us on how we want to see it.. She said to be rational. Thats one way on how to be less emotional. Rationalization... and one person came to mind... Who else but my dear old fren, Max Weber. Lama tak dengar nama dia kan... hehe ;)
But just rationalization is not something that makes us as we are. Emotions and how we deal with them in different situations also make up our individuality. That is what makes us special and different from others. Perceptions, principles, people-to-people relationship... But whatever it is, we should never disregard others' versions of it.
It seems sincere enough so i should just let it go.. I wouldnt say that theres absolutely nothin to it and what i felt will always remains.. In time, everything will fall into place. We'll see..
I shall end today's post with this...
Situations especially make you experienced in having two particular powers- like power to tolerate- to have detachment and become a conqueror of attachment- and it also teaches you the lesson of having the power to face, so that you learn something for the future.
So the situation has only come to teach you these two lessons: the power to tolerate and the power to face.
In short, for all that happens, something good can come out of it... U can always make the most out of any situation.